DAY three in Stellenbosch culminated in the Gentleman’s Tea at Lanzerac. I generally take issue with unnecessary and arbitrary gendering. Festive season gifts for him and gifts for her make me mad. Braai accessories for men and bubble bath for women – please. Certain clothing, yes, is necessarily tailored to suit different body shapes (which may or may not have anything to do with actual gender), but shoes? Why are there “ladies” All Stars? Am I a lady? Why are my feet different? Am I not permitted to wear Chucks that are designed for men? I mean, a lot of them look exactly the same.
So when I was presented with this Gentleman’s Tea and voiced my opinion, my host looked concerned as to where I might go with this story. But one must pick one’s battles, and like it or not, let’s face it: afternoon teas are for the most part – in my experience anyway – womanly, feminine pursuits, with delicate and pretty little cakes and scones and bubbly. I cannot recall ever doing one with a man. Tea cups are often decorated with flowers, and a pianist might be tinkling in the background. It is just the way it is. You want to put on a frock and a big hat. Again, nothing gender-based about that. Anyway.
The Gentleman’s Tea has been introduced as an alternative to that, served in the hotel’s Craven Lounge with all its leather and wood panelling and fireplace and sport on the TV screen. There are dozens of whiskies on the shelves and you are permitted to smoke cigars and cigarettes. And obviously, the offering is not limited to men, gentle or otherwise.
Next up are the Hot Bites: smoked beef medallions with béarnaise sauce, and bacon relish; salmon and crayfish sliders with Asian slaw on a charcoal bun; brisket and chive potato croquettes with tomato jam and lemon aioli; panko-crusted prawns with paprika mayo and coriander romesco; and delicious little skaapstertjies (lamb’s tails) with spiced apricot glaze, yum.
They call the next platter to arrive “Finger Sandwiches” and you’ll need all of yours to eat these steamed buns filled with BBQ pulled pork and smoked pineapple. Wraps hold tikka chicken with coriander and tomato salsa, and the Lanzerac Braai Broodjie is a chonk of a sarmie.
So yes, it’s an afternoon of “man-sized” indulgence. Are you woman enough for it?
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